Jenny & Nicolae

Friday, January 29, 2027

Shangri-La Mactan Resort & Spa · Cebu, Philippines

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Our Story

We met online, and never logged off

We matched, talked for two days straight, and by the end of that weekend the conversation had already turned into plans. One date became every weekend. Then the weekends became trips.

Travel is what we do together: new airports, long drives, wrong turns, food we still talk about. Somewhere between all of it, we stopped being two people who travel together and became the person the other one wants to come home to.

Cebu is the next chapter: the two of us, in front of the people we love, on a January evening by the water.

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The Wedding Day

Friday, January 29, 2027

Shangri-La Mactan Resort & Spa, Punta Engaño Road, Lapu-Lapu City, Mactan Island, Cebu.

The Ceremony

  • Begins 4:00 PM — Ocean Pavilion
  • Arrive from 3:00 PM — 30 to 60 minutes early gives you time to park, find your seat and settle in
  • Please be seated by 3:45 PM
  • Runs about an hour, then we move to cocktails

Cocktails

  • 5:00 – 6:30 PM — Ocean Pavilion Garden
  • Drinks and canapés on the lawn while we take photographs
  • Sunset over the strait falls around 5:40 PM

The Reception

  • 6:30 PM — dinner and dancing on the Ocean Terraces
  • Live grill, Cebu lechon, and long tables under the sky
  • Outdoor setting — Cebu nights are warm, dress for it

After-party

  • 10:30 PM — the party moves indoors to the Ocean Pavilion
  • Music, bar and dancing under cover until late
  • No need to move your car — you are already here
Getting here: the resort is about 20 minutes from Mactan-Cebu International Airport. The ceremony begins at 4:00 PM with arrivals from 3:00 PM, so anyone landing that morning has time to check in and change. Dinner is outdoors, so bring a light layer for the breeze and flats you can trust on grass.

What to Wear

Garden & beach formal

Elegant but unfussy, in warm neutrals and soft greens. Think long dresses, linen, light suits, and shoes that survive grass, sand and stone terraces.

Sage
Olive
Dusty blue
Champagne
Beige
Taupe
Blush
Terracotta

Please

  • Colours from the palette above — the photos will thank you
  • Linen, silk, light wool, flowing fabrics
  • Block heels, wedges, loafers or dressy flats (there is grass and sand)
  • A light layer for the evening breeze off the water

Please don't

  • White, ivory or cream — those belong to the bride
  • Stiletto heels — they will sink
  • Beachwear, shorts, flip-flops or anything you would wear to a pool bar
  • Denim

Travel & Stay

Getting to Mactan

By air

Mactan-Cebu International Airport (CEB) — the resort is roughly 20 minutes from the terminal by car. International flights from the US usually connect through Manila, Tokyo, Seoul, Doha, Dubai or Singapore.

To the resort

Arranged transfers, taxis and ride-hailing all work, and the hotel can meet you. We may also have a rental car at the resort, in which case we will gladly send a driver to collect you from Cebu airport, timing and availability permitting. Send us your flight details and we will confirm.

Coming from abroad?

Routing, buffers, jet lag and the entry paperwork are all covered in Getting to the Philippines just below.

Where to stay

Practical

  • Currency: Philippine peso (PHP). Cards are fine at the resort; cash for taxis
  • Power: 220V, US-style flat two-pin plugs work in most sockets
  • Weather late January: 25–30°C, warm evenings, occasional shower
  • Phones: pick up a local eSIM before landing for cheap data

The Long Journey

Getting to the Philippines

Cebu is a long way from almost everywhere, and the journey deserves planning of its own. Our honest advice: treat it as two days of travel, not an overnight hop, and be on Mactan two days before the wedding.

Option 1 · straight to Cebu

  • If your city has an itinerary landing at Mactan-Cebu (CEB) with one or two stops, take it
  • Shortest total travel, one check-in, and you land 20 minutes from the resort
  • Usual one-stop routes run through Tokyo, Seoul, Singapore, Hong Kong, Doha or Dubai
  • Often the pricier option, and the last leg is usually a smaller aircraft

Option 2 · via Manila or another Asian hub

  • Usually cheaper: fly long-haul to Manila, Singapore, Hong Kong, Seoul or Taipei, then take a short flight down to Cebu
  • Manila to Cebu is about 1 hour 25 minutes, with departures all day and low fares
  • On one ticket, the airline must rebook you if a leg runs late
  • On two separate tickets nobody protects your connection — spend the night in Manila instead of gambling on 90 minutes

Why we say two days

Long-haul travel fails in ordinary, boring ways: a cancelled leg, a four-hour delay, a missed connection, a storm somewhere in the region, a bag that arrives on the next flight. Any one of those costs you most of a day, and a wedding date does not move. So build the slack in yourself:

Jet lag is real out here

The Philippines runs on UTC+8, so the clock moves a long way in one flight: about 13 hours ahead of the US East Coast (16 from California), 8 ahead of the UK, and 6 ahead of Romania. Arriving a couple of days early is the difference between dancing at nine in the evening and falling asleep in the soup at seven. What helps:

Before you fly

  • Passport: valid for at least 6 months beyond your stay
  • Visa: US, EU and Romanian passports get 30 days visa-free on arrival
  • Onward ticket: airlines and immigration want proof you are leaving, so keep the return booking to hand
  • eTravel: register free at etravel.gov.ph within 72 hours before you fly, and keep the QR code
  • Insurance: worth having on a trip this long
  • Copies: passport, bookings and your eTravel code saved on your phone as well as on paper

Booking it, step by step

Open this if you have never booked a trip this long

1. Decide which door you want. We will be in Manila first, visiting Jenny's family, before flying down to Cebu. That gives you two routes:

  • Meet us in Manila. Fly into Manila (MNL), spend a couple of days with us there, then take the short domestic flight down to Cebu, about 1 hour 25 minutes, with departures all day.
  • Straight to Cebu. Fly into Cebu (CEB) with one stop through an international hub: Tokyo, Seoul, Hong Kong, Taipei or Singapore. You do not have to go through Manila if Cebu is where you are headed.

2. Nonstop or connecting. Nonstop flights from the US to Manila leave from Los Angeles, San Francisco and New York, and from 9 November 2026 also from Chicago, on Philippine Airlines, which flies more of these routes than anyone. United flies San Francisco to Manila nonstop. If you are not near one of those cities, search for one or two stops.

3. The extended layover trick. Instead of sitting in an airport for a three hour connection, book a multi-city ticket and spend two or three days in a city like Tokyo or Seoul on the way out or the way back. It usually costs 100 to 200 US dollars more and turns dead time into a second holiday. Two warnings if you pick Tokyo: taxis from Narita airport run 28,000 to 33,000 yen, while the Narita Express or the Keisei Skyliner train does the same trip for about 3,000 yen, so take the train. And pack only luggage you can carry yourself, because you will be moving it through stations.

4. Check your points and miles first. Credit card points and airline miles with American, United or a transferable card program can cover or heavily discount a long haul ticket. Check what you already have, and what a sign-up bonus would give you, before paying cash.

5. Where to search. Use Google Flights to test routes and watch price trends, and compare with Kayak, Skyscanner and Expedia. For a one stop itinerary through to Cebu, always price the airline's own site too: Philippine Airlines, United, Korean Air, Cathay Pacific or EVA Air.

6. Ask us. Genuinely, message us and we will run searches with you, or hop on a call. We have done this trip more than once and we are happy to look at dates with you before you book anything.

Still choosing? Send us your city and your dates and we will happily look at routes with you. That is what we are here for.

Before We Say I Do

Questions guests actually ask

Can I bring a plus-one?

Because seats and meals are counted ahead of time, plus-ones are by name on your invitation. If yours says "and guest", bring them. If it doesn't and you would like one, message us before December and we will do our best.

Are children invited?

We love your kids. To keep the evening relaxed for everyone, we are keeping the reception adults-only, with the exception of immediate family. Tell us if that makes it hard for you and we will help you find childcare at the resort.

What happens if it rains?

January is one of Cebu's drier months, but showers happen. The ceremony is under the Ocean Pavilion, and we have a covered plan for the evening if the weather turns. Either way, you will not be standing in the rain.

Can we take photos during the ceremony?

We are having an unplugged ceremony, so please keep phones and cameras away and be fully present with us. After the ceremony, take everything you like, and we will share the photographers' gallery afterwards.

What shoes should I wear?

Block heels, wedges, loafers or dressy flats. The ceremony and cocktails involve grass, and the terrace is stone and sand. Nothing that sinks.

I have dietary restrictions.

Tell us on the RSVP. The resort handles vegetarian, vegan, gluten-free, nut allergies and halal on request, and your meal will be marked with your name.

Do I need cash?

Not for the wedding. Cards work at the resort. A little peso cash is handy for taxis, market shopping and tips.

How do we get from Cebu airport to the resort?

The resort is about 20 minutes from Mactan-Cebu International Airport by car. There are taxis and ride-hailing at the terminal, and the hotel can arrange a transfer. We may also have a rental car at the resort, in which case we will gladly send a driver to collect you, timing and availability permitting. Send us your flight details and we will confirm. Coming down from Manila? Tell us which domestic flight you are on and we will meet that one.

Is there a gift registry?

Your presence at our wedding is the greatest gift, especially for those flying so far. If you wish to give something, we will add details here closer to the date.

Make a Trip of It

Things to do in Cebu

Islands & reefs

Charter a private banca, a traditional outrigger boat, and set your own pace: snorkelling at Hilutungan Marine Sanctuary, the sandbar at Nalusuan, the quieter coves off Olango Island. Late January is peak season at the Olango bird sanctuary, when the migratory flocks arrive.

City & history

Magellan's Cross, Basilica del Santo Niño and Fort San Pedro in old Cebu City, about 45 minutes away. Closer to us: the Mactan Shrine and the guitar makers of Lapu-Lapu.

Up in the hills

An hour up to Busay for cooler air and the view back over the strait: the flower terraces at Sirao Garden, the grand shrine at Temple of Leah, and dinner as the city lights come on at Top of Cebu.

Food

Lechon, the local roast pork obsession, grilled seafood along Punta Engaño Road, fresh mango and buko. For a nicer night: Abaca Baking Company, a seaside table at Cowrie Cove, or cocktails at Scape Skydeck.

Adventure

Kawasan Falls and canyoneering to the south, whale sharks in Oslob (a long day trip), parasailing and jetski straight off the Mactan resorts.

Slow days

Sunrise swim, a private villa treatment at CHI, The Spa (the hilot massage uses warm banana leaves), long breakfast, sunset cocktails by the water. You are on holiday, and that counts as an activity.

If You Have More Time

Extending the trip

You have come this far, so a few extra days are worth it. These are the add-ons guests ask about most. Prices are estimates in US dollars with pesos in brackets, at roughly 62 pesos to the dollar, so treat them as a guide rather than a quote.

Bohol · two hours by ferry

  • Fast ferry from Cebu's Pier 1 to Tagbilaran, about two hours, no airport security and no baggage weight limits
  • The Chocolate Hills: over 1,200 cone-shaped hills, seen from the viewing deck
  • The Philippine Tarsier Sanctuary at Corella, one of the smallest primates on earth
  • The Loboc River lunch cruise, floating down emerald water with live music
  • Panglao Island: sea turtles at Balicasag reef, and the Virgin Island sandbar
  • Fireflies along the Abatan River after dark

Roughly: ferry about 28 US dollars (PHP 1,750) each way in business class, a private car and driver for a full day around 70 (PHP 4,400), and a comfortable weekend for two for about 440 to 560 (PHP 27,500 to 35,000) all in.

Manila · two days on the way

  • Day one, old Manila: inside the walls of Intramuros, Fort Santiago, San Agustin Church, and the National Museum of Fine Arts, which is free and holds Juan Luna's Spoliarium
  • Day two, modern Manila: the Ayala Museum in Makati, a walk along Bonifacio High Street in BGC, and rooftop cocktails in Poblacion
  • Use Grab rather than street taxis, and stay off the roads between 7:30 and 9:30 in the morning and 5 and 8 in the evening

Roughly: museum entries from free to about 12 dollars (PHP 750), and dinner with drinks 25 to 45 per person (PHP 1,550 to 2,800).

Hop to another island

Cebu is a hub, and domestic flights stay cheap if you book some weeks ahead. Guide prices, one way, per person:

After the wedding · Da Nang, Vietnam

Jenny and Nicolae are staying on for a few days after the wedding and heading to Da Nang in Vietnam, sometime between 5 and 10 February. The dates are not locked in yet. Anyone who fancies coming along is very welcome, and we would love the company, so just say so on the RSVP and we will plan around each other.

Da Nang is one of the cheapest and most popular beach cities in Asia: the long white beach at My Khe, the lantern streets of Hoi An about 45 minutes away, the Golden Bridge held up by giant stone hands in the Ba Na Hills, the Marble Mountains, and a dragon bridge that breathes real fire on weekend nights. Flights from Manila are direct, about two and a half hours, and around 250 US dollars return (PHP 15,600). Five-star beach resorts cost a fraction of European prices, and the airport sits inside the city.

Want help planning? Tell us your dates and what you enjoy and we will happily sketch a route with you. Half the fun of a wedding abroad is the trip around it.

RSVP

Will you be there?

Kindly reply by December 1, 2026 so we can seat you properly and count your meal.

Your details go only to Jenny and Nicolae. Nothing is shared, nothing is public.